Dear Sisterfriend,
Can I say something bold?
You are not for sale.
You are not on clearance.
You are not waiting to be picked—you’ve already been placed.
Placed in purpose.
Placed in power.
Placed in position—by God Himself.
There was a time you chased people who couldn’t see your value.
You tried to “do better” to earn their love.
You tried to shrink to keep the peace.
You tried to explain yourself to those committed to misunderstanding you.
But no more.
You were not created to chase—you were created to carry.
To carry glory. To carry wisdom. To carry peace.
To carry the mantle of a woman who knows who she is and whose she is.
You are already enough.
Not because you’ve done everything right—
But because you are rooted in the One who makes all things right in His time.
So stop trying to prove it.
Start walking in it.
You’re not chosen because you’re perfect.
You’re chosen because you’re His.
With bold love and unwavering truth,
Dr. Anita McDaniel